My OKCupid account has suddenly exploded. One guy’s writing from Indianapolis. Another is in Maine. A third is Colorado bound. I’m attracting men on the move. Since I haven’t had a vacation in a decade, these dudes are providing vicarious thrills. A New York City museum review. Lobster at a little café on the Maine shore. Movies; carnivals; plans to take mules into the Grand Canyon, oh my! I’m starting to feel like a pioneer: The little lady left behind while she watches manly men charge into adventures. Or maybe I’m just envious. Or jealous. Yup. It’s the last two.